call the service I work for many young people concerned because they believe suffer from impotence, in my practice are those that go well with this same problem. Fortunately, although advertising wants to give us an idea of \u200b\u200bthis is very common in men, we must distinguish between dysfunction disease erectiva not so common and very common situation that after an occasional failure once (Gatillazo) appears a problem of repeated loss or difficulty having an erection.
In this circumstance can be reached by very different reasons, sometimes with some explanation other that we can hardly justify, see some of these possibilities:
Perhaps the most typical is that one night after walking ligand have been drinking and taking drugs the boy intends to maintain a fast and running in the car or in the uncomfortable corners and not get an erection. Here you can find several logical reasons to lose or not get it: alcohol is known
of favoring sex. This is relatively true, but really only useful if it is a small dose. A Cup for both partners can help
The snuff on a night of flirting, smoking is usually faster and more and also hardens those arteries. If on top
consumed any drugs they may also sometimes difficult direct action as a result many organic and psychological. Almost all drugs accelerate the thought, hence the "fun" that may be, the problem is that if the thought I have is fear of failure or not to know montármelo or "to heck is happening to my penis ..." This thought accelerated and distorted just going to agonize much more and the decision will be safe. In this sense drugs have formed a useful urban legends for sex. Well, maybe an older person who is bored with repetitive sexuality "help" rather using a substance sporadically. But this has nothing to do with the use and abuse than most people, especially young makes many drugs in one night. Organic Direct effects vary greatly from one drug to another, from one person to another and how a drug manufactured by a "camel" changes in dose, substance used and often apparently drug itself has nothing to do one day another.
Another issue discussed in this circumstance is the anguish with which most men live sex, but fortunately not all those whose sexual self-esteem is a little shaken. I mean, the idea of \u200b\u200b"I have to be the best" kill us all. If someone tries to imitate the "supermacho" of the movies takes a huge upset when they see he can not stand or a few minutes, your penis is not nearly in half and the type and the girl you're not screaming too if only we introduced our "scepter." There is a very distorted view of reality of what is a sexual relationship and almost everyone claims to be "machoman." This idea produces anguish and anxiety situation important. And the anxiety is motivated by what is, among other symptoms tend to decrease the size of the penis, to hide. Sexology is what we call "performance anxiety." If this circumstance is added the factor "the girl", ie the other party at the time we can improve or worsen the situation. That's very typical that if she gives us the idea that it is "very female" and it will be hard to please us more heartache for the account. This is very common today as it has created a very direct erotic language in which it can exaggerate the claims and the man to feel daunted. Another common circumstance is that if she notices that he is having a hard erection is dedicated to doing more things that "help" and these moves away from the can again excite further distress.
When these circumstances occur one or all at once is not unusual for the man suffers a panic attack or just an anxiety attack the next time you propose relationship, as is concerned about the failure last time her anxiety will ask you worry too much and that's very easy to repeat the situation. In Sexology call this "the mechanism of self-observation" is that if I get in looking sex penis or my answer the only thing I do is worry and thus the non-erect penis, this only achieves the excitement, is very difficult to get excited when we turn to an examination.
So the person who after several failed starts episodes around all day giving the problem, usually enter a dynamic test. Test to see if your penis works. Used porn to "see what happens," ever touched a girl looking to see if is excited as before, take another drink more to see if it goes better, you take another drug that has been told that is best for those items. Or, very modern, it takes some of the pills to the pharmacy entered the market. And forget the most sensible thing is to put your problem in the hands of a professional, not of sex but of Sexology. As this is very common, "as I failed with the girl the other day I go to a brothel that they are experts."
At the beginning of the article I explained the situation more frequent "Gatillazo" but there are indeed many circumstances, such as in adults carrying enough time for any reason without relationships and all of a sudden there is a woman in our lives, sometimes our age and other somewhat younger, this younger it gives man the distressing idea that it is facing a fierce sexual demands of him a lot. Usually when I talk to them together and says they pose this as indeed it has never asked for anything or nothing and everything is the result of preconceived ideas they have. Nothing is more dangerous to our excitement that preconceived ideas about what the other person asks.
Sometimes it is our body that keeps us from maintaining an erection or excitement stable. So it is not uncommon that if I am tired exhausted, stressed or just cold, my body does not follow me in my wishes and much to my partner or I want to display an answer, the excitement is going to cost more than is strictly necessary. Today stress is very common, mortgages, unemployment, unstable jobs, and on top of the lack of information on sexuality leaves us in a very complicated situation.
If any of these circumstances occur in your life and you meet a erectiva dysfunction, even go professional as soon as possible in these cases time plays against you. The more times you are exposed to the situation that will generate more anxiety will be worse.
not make the mistake of trying to treatments on your own, the facilitators of the erection pills can only make you understand, mistakenly, that you really have an organic problem and become dependent on them. Used by a professional are a wonderful help, but there will always be to treat the real cause of anxiety and seek a change in behavior, which is one of the most widely used in sexology. The combination drugs over behavioral treatment resolves virtually all cases and in a much more natural.