This is an issue somewhat compromised because there are many exceptions to the rule and yet do nothing to complicate the understanding of this function. Every girl has the show as well you are doing and tell the truth about what feel, but they exaggerate what they perceive, some not knowing what really should feel and others because it is very easy to talk about everything.
try to explain the reality of what we know today.
now know that around 80% of women, healthy, normal, without any problems with their sexuality, never have an orgasm with penetration. The reason for this is that really the vagina is an organ with very few nerve endings, and that at the time of delivery, if there there are many sensitive nerves, the pain would be tremendous. If there is some sensitivity, but especially in the outer third, ie 3 or 4 inches where input during arousal form what became known as the "orgasmic platform." This only appears when you are excited, if it were not so the girls would feel pleasure, for example, insert a tampax, and you have already proven that it is not.
The idea that the penetration must be pleasant is a matter of sexist or androcentric mythology since time immemorial, man entered the woman, but with the intention of enjoying it. A woman to give him. This came to be so until serologic studies found this. However instead of getting this information out to the street so we could change our behavior what really came out and with great power was porn.
This is mostly male and in any scene we see as a woman "feels very pleased" with whatever you do with a penis or anything like it. You have seen the faces that make them when you put a penis in the mouth, or when the macho on duty will check all the semen in the face. All fairy tales and theater.
As I started writing, there are exceptions, and some women if they are pleased with the penetration, sometimes because their clitoris is bigger and receives stimuli during penetration, sometimes they are by that much this girl has erotic act in their fantasies and when it occurs it causes this discharge, some of which have a special feeling in the vaginal walls. But these on only 15% of all women.
Since then 100% of women if they get their orgasm with clitoral stimulation. And this is very easy to access. All ask the girl who beat or how it is more enjoyable because if there are differences, some anatomical and other learned behaviors in automasturbaciones that make every girl you like from the stimulus in a particular way more than others.
is also true that during penetration if the guy or girl the same worry that this will continue to receive clitoral stimulation, which can occur if you see an orgasm during penetration, but not her.
The picture shows the true shape of the clitoris is actually a cavernous cavernous completely identical to the male body shape and size but different. Co see the branches "legs" of the clitoris reach the entrance of the vagina but it is a little bit away from the sides, allowing penetration but not orgasm if it occurs very pleasant and almost all the girls look to the act if it happens. Sometimes girls write me saying they do not ever get to the guy and if alone, it is more common than you imagine, and is mainly due to the ease with which we abandon our fantasies when we masturbate and follow a pace appropriate to the way we perceive and when we are with the family costs us so much abandon. Sometimes these fantasies that we both encourage us alone, others that the boy does not play the same way, others cut to what is happening and others for which there is a new circumstance, fear. If fear of pregnancy, to dislike, not knowing how to say no to the requests of the other home, what will happen if my mother finds out, in order to thousands of different circumstances.
These little problems tend to resolve themselves over time, especially if we insist on "I have to get it, or will eventually need some sex therapist. The sexologists are those who understand this problem.
